Should I do a first look on my wedding day?
A first look is a moment when the bride and groom see each other before the wedding ceremony. This private moment can be a special and intimate way to start your wedding day, but as with most wedding decisions, there are some trade-offs.
Pros:
More time for photos: A first look usually allows you to have more time for photos before the ceremony, giving you the opportunity to capture more posed and wedding-party portraits and take advantage of the natural light.
Reduce nerves: Seeing each other before the ceremony can reduce nerves and help you both relax before the big moment. If you are someone who is nervous, especially in front of crowds, this could allow you to enjoy your ceremony more.
Intimate moment: A first look is a private moment between just the bride and groom, allowing you to have a special moment together before the wedding ceremony. You get to see your future spouse for the first time on the day - without an audience.
Cons:
Breaking tradition: Some couples may feel that a first look is a departure from traditional wedding etiquette and that it takes away from the excitement of seeing each other for the first time during the ceremony.
Schedule: Doing a first look can add more time to your wedding day schedule and may require you to adjust your timing for the rest of the day. If your wedding schedule is already tight or feels too full, you’ll want to consider skipping the first look.
Less anticipation: If you enjoy the anticipation and excitement of seeing each other for the first time during the ceremony, a first look may take away from this special moment.
Ultimately, the decision to do a first look for your wedding is a personal one that depends on your preferences and priorities. Talk to your partner, and make the best decision for you and your wedding day. Ultimately, it’s your choice. We hear about photographers and videographers pushing couples to do one or the other. The way we view it at The Film Jar, is that whatever your preference is, it will be a beautiful moment and we’ll be there to capture it.